Turquoise water and a sailboat off the coast in the Grenadines

A week away. A stronger way forward.

A little room to breathe.
A lot of room to grow.

A weeklong sailing retreat for pastors and their spouses to rest, reconnect, and rediscover the joy of doing life and ministry together.

ST. VINCENT & THE GRENADINES01 / A DIFFERENT KIND OF RETREAT
01 THE HEART BEHIND IT

Marriage matters. So do the people leading.

When ministry couples are cared for, their communities feel it.

Pastors spend so much of themselves caring for others. Ship Shape Your Marriage makes space for them and their spouses to receive that same care. Away from the demands of home and church, they can slow down, talk honestly, laugh together, and tend to their own marriage.

We hope couples return refreshed and more willing to share the real, imperfect work of loving one another. That kind of openness can give others permission to invest in their marriages too.

Stronger marriages can help shape stronger families, churches, and communities.

The experience

Unhurried days.
Honest conversations.

A week aboard a sailing catamaran in St. Vincent and the Grenadines gives ministry couples a change of pace and a chance to focus on each other.

Looking forward from the helm of a sailing catamaran toward the seaTHE GRENADINES, FROM THE WATER
01

Step away together

Leave the routines and responsibilities behind for a few days and share the simple rhythm of life on the water.

02

Make room for each other

Rest, explore, and have the kind of conversations that are easy to put off when everyone else needs you.

03

Carry it home

Return with renewed care for your own marriage and encouragement to be open about marriage in your life and ministry.

Ask about a retreat

A glimpse of the journey

Come aboard.

See a little of the place, the pace, and the people behind Ship Shape Your Marriage.

A bright beach and sailboat in the Grenadines

A ministry built around people

Not another thing to lead.
A chance to be loved.

Ship Shape Your Marriage is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit ministry. We invite leadership couples in the church to a weeklong liveaboard sailing experience and surround them with friendship, encouragement, and room to reconnect.

Whether you are a pastor who needs this time, or someone who wants to help make it possible, we would love to hear from you.

Guests relaxing together on the deck of a sailing catamaranTHE BEST CONVERSATIONS OFTEN HAVE NO AGENDA.

Help make the week possible

Give a couple the gift of time together.

Your support helps us care for ministry couples and cover retreat expenses. The ministry says donations go toward ministry expenses, with no salaries or administrative expenses. Reach out to discuss sponsoring a couple, making a gift, or even donating a catamaran.

Talk with us about giving

Good to know

Questions before
you set sail?

Every couple and every trip is different. We’re happy to talk through the details personally.

Who is the retreat for?

Married couples involved in church leadership, including pastors and their spouses. Contact us to discuss whether it is a fit for you or a couple you would like to support.

What does a week look like?

It is a weeklong liveaboard sailing experience in St. Vincent and the Grenadines, with space for rest, connection, and meaningful conversation. We can share plans and logistics directly.

What expenses are included?

The existing ministry description says the week aboard is paid for, while travel and dinners ashore are normally separate; an all-expenses-paid arrangement may be possible on request. Please confirm current details with us before making plans.

How can I help?

You can ask about sponsoring a ministry couple, making a donation, or contributing a catamaran to expand the number of couples served. Email us to discuss the best route.

A smiling guest enjoying a day on the sailing catamaran

Start a conversation

Let’s make room for
marriage to thrive.

Interested in a retreat? Know a couple who could use one? Want to help make one possible? Tell us your story.

Email Ron